A 40-year-old woman who's never had a cock in her mouth...

...you're picturing Anne Widdecombe, right?

Actually, she's very attractive - tiny, delicate features, dresses well, looks younger than me (35).

And she's no nun. She's slept with 20-odd men in her life, has had at least two long-ish relationship, loves "snogging" randoms. Worked as a party-hard tour rep for years in her twenties.

How can this happen? Isn't she, at least, curious? And haven't any of these men, ever ... asked?

We didn't get on to the subject of - does she, er, get but not give? I don't know how that would work - it's a reciprocal thing, surely? And if that's not part of your foreplay-type shenans, what else is there?

Maybe there really are people who turn the lights out and get undressed under the duvet?

I'm hoping to see said woman again at some point under similar (girly, tipsy) circumstances, to try to get some answers.